Decide without checking or analysing again
Notice the doubt that follows a decision and carry on with your day without another round of checking, comparing or asking for reassurance.
I help adults who feel trapped by intrusive thoughts, anxiety, checking, analysing or the need to feel certain. Therapy can help these patterns loosen, so you can feel calmer and more confident, with more of your attention available for the people and parts of life that matter.
You may know that reassurance only helps temporarily, that another search probably won’t settle the doubt, or that checking how you feel often makes you less certain. But when anxiety or dread takes over — or the urge to do something about it becomes intense — the need to respond can still feel urgent and completely convincing.
You might appear capable and composed to everyone else while privately losing hours to intrusive thoughts, analysis, checking, avoidance or the need to get something perfectly certain.
The problem isn’t that you aren’t intelligent enough to understand it. It’s that understanding, on its own, isn’t enough to help you respond differently when the anxiety takes over.
The aim is not to guarantee that difficult thoughts or feelings never return. It is to help them take up less of your attention, time and energy when they do.
Notice the doubt that follows a decision and carry on with your day without another round of checking, comparing or asking for reassurance.
Recognise when analysis has stopped being useful and return your attention to what the present moment actually needs.
Re-enter relationships, work, rest and ordinary activities without waiting for perfect certainty or emotional comfort.
The LIBERATE Approach™ brings together counselling, ERP, hypnosis and other evidence-informed methods within one flexible framework.
We’ll develop a shared understanding of what keeps your particular pattern going, then create practical experiences that help you respond differently when thoughts, feelings or bodily sensations feel difficult to ignore. It is collaborative and responsive — not a rigid protocol that every client must follow in the same order.
You don’t need a diagnosis to enquire. We can begin with what is happening in your life and work together to understand the pattern in context.
Support with unwanted thoughts, mental rituals, checking, reassurance, avoidance and persistent “What if?” doubt.
Explore OCD therapy →For anxiety that keeps pulling attention towards threat, bodily sensations, future problems or the need to feel sure.
Explore anxiety therapy →Sessions are available in person in Plymouth and online across the UK. You can choose the format that works best for your circumstances and the work we are doing.
I’m Carolyn Gillan, an accredited counsellor and hypnotherapist. I have been supporting people with OCD, intrusive thoughts and anxiety since 2008.
My work is relational, practical and evidence-informed. I’ll take your experience seriously without treating every distressing thought, feeling or urge as proof that something is wrong, and I’ll explain the purpose behind what we do so therapy feels collaborative rather than something being done to you.
More about Carolyn →“Without Carolyn I would still be living a half life.”
“Carolyn has a very calm, reassuring and compassionate approach. The sessions have been invaluable.”
“There are no magic solutions — it takes commitment and effort — but positive changes can be achieved.”
These are individual experiences. Results vary and therapy is not a substitute for medical diagnosis or treatment.
You don’t need to work through everything. Start with what feels most relevant and let it give you one useful next step.
A short, non-diagnostic questionnaire to help you spot the checking, reassurance, analysis, avoidance or other responses that may be keeping you caught in the loop — and notice where you may have a choice about what happens next.
Try the OCD Pattern Finder → Articles & practical guidanceRead about OCD, anxiety and familiar patterns, with practical ideas designed to help understanding lead towards useful change rather than more analysis.
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