Decide without checking or analysing again
Notice the doubt that follows a decision and carry on with your day without another round of checking, comparing or asking for reassurance.
In person in Plymouth Online across the UK
I help people who are exhausted by unwanted intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviours to enjoy life again — putting their energy back into what really matters: the people and things they love.
If you’re ready to do the work, I’d love to hear from you.
When knowing isn’t enough
You may know that reassurance only helps temporarily, that another search probably won’t settle the doubt, or that checking how you feel often makes you less certain. But when anxiety or dread takes over—or the urge to do something about it becomes intense—the need to respond can still feel urgent and completely convincing.
You might appear capable and composed to everyone else while privately losing hours to intrusive thoughts, analysis, checking, avoidance or the need to get something perfectly certain.
The problem isn’t that you aren’t intelligent enough to understand it. It’s that understanding, on its own, isn’t enough to help you respond differently when the anxiety takes over.
A wider measure of progress
The aim is not to guarantee that difficult thoughts or feelings never return. It is to help them take up less of your attention, time and energy when they do.
Notice the doubt that follows a decision and carry on with your day without another round of checking, comparing or asking for reassurance.
Recognise when analysis has stopped being useful and return your attention to what the present moment actually needs.
Re-enter relationships, work, rest and ordinary activities without waiting for perfect certainty or emotional comfort.
The LIBERATE Approach™
The LIBERATE Approach brings together counselling, ERP, hypnosis and other evidence-informed methods within one flexible framework.
We’ll develop a shared understanding of what keeps your particular pattern going, then create practical experiences that help you respond differently when thoughts, feelings or bodily sensations feel difficult to ignore. It is collaborative and responsive — not a rigid protocol that every client must follow in the same order.
Specialist, individual support
You don’t need a diagnosis to enquire. We can begin with what is happening in your life and work together to understand the pattern in context.
Support with unwanted thoughts, mental rituals, checking, reassurance, avoidance and persistent “What if?” doubt.
For anxiety that keeps pulling attention towards threat, bodily sensations, future problems or the need to feel sure.
Face-to-face appointments in a calm, private therapy room in Plymouth, Devon.
Specialist therapy from your own space, without geography limiting the therapist or approach you choose.
About Carolyn
I’m Carolyn Gillan, an accredited counsellor and hypnotherapist. I have been supporting people with OCD, intrusive thoughts and anxiety since 2008.
My work is relational, practical and evidence-informed. I’ll take your experience seriously without treating every distressing thought, feeling or urge as proof that something is wrong, and I’ll explain the purpose behind what we do so therapy feels collaborative rather than something being done to you.
More about CarolynClient experiences
“Without Carolyn I would still be living a half life.”
“Carolyn has a very calm, reassuring and compassionate approach. The sessions have been invaluable.”
“There are no magic solutions — it takes commitment and effort — but positive changes can be achieved.”
These are individual experiences. Results vary and therapy is not a substitute for medical diagnosis or treatment.
The next step
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